Decisions

I have thought over the past few days, trying to decide what I wanted to write about. Many topics filled my mind but nothing really leaped out at me. I think it's because I have so much on my mind. My son is going into the 6th grade this coming school year. He has Asperger's Syndrome, a high-functioning form of Autism and I am concerned for him, change has never been his strong suit and there is a big change going from elementary school to middle school. He has been at the same school since kindergarten, now he will be at a new school with new students. His elementary school was not his zoned school, his middle school is, so all the faces will be new to him. There are several different programs to choose from and so much information to absorb in order to make the best decision for him.

Then there are life's daily issues that need to be handled. Sometimes you just feel so overwhelmed, but I know that all will work out well. I just have to take a few moments, breathe and gather my thoughts. I have decided to make a list of the things I can handle immediately and in the order of importance. Then take care of them one at a time. When I get all of the information on the different programs for my sons school, I will write down the pros & cons for each program and then pick the one that suits him the best.

There's a solution to every problem. Some are immediately evident others just need time and thought. I have learned that when I begin to feel overwhelmed I just need to let it all go and then come back with a new perspective. Sometimes I just have to clear my mind of all thoughts, go for a walk, listen to some relaxing music and calm my nerves. One of the most important things that I have learned about making decisions is never to make them when you are not in a calm state of mind. Our emotions can cloud our judgment and lead us down the wrong path. Try your best in all situations to stay cool, calm, collected and in self control. You then can make a sound decision.

“A wise person decides slowly but abides by these decisions.”-Arthur Ashe